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Monday, July 13, 2015
Tzedakah in Memory of Shani
Marci Bleicher asked me to post the following on the blog:
For more information on the tzedakah campaign, click here.
For Ari's Yahrtzeit today, I donated to the fund in Shani' memory, as she meant so much to us. I miss them both.
- Marci Bleicher
For more information on the tzedakah campaign, click here.
Monday, July 6, 2015
Friday, August 1, 2014
First Yahrtzeit Shiur: What is Ayin Hara and how can we avoid it?
Click here for a shiur on Ayin Hara given by Rabbi Elie Feder to Zahava and friends, in memory of the first yahrtzeit of their mother a"h.
Tuesday, July 15, 2014
Shani's Yahrzeit 5774
Today was Shani's yahrzeit. David, Mendy, and Elie spoke. Click here for a link to download David's and Mendy's speeches, and click here for a link to download Elie's speech.
Tuesday, January 7, 2014
Journal from Shani's Memorial Dinner
Click here to view the journal from the Yeshiva Bnei Torah Chanukas Habayis Dedication Dinner in memory of Shani.
Monday, December 16, 2013
Audio from YBT Dinner in Memory of Shani
Click here (then click "download") to listen to the speeches from the Yeshiva Bnei Torah Chanukas Habayis Dedication Dinner in memory of Shani.
Monday, October 21, 2013
The Warmth of Shani - by Chaviva
I am enlightened by all the stories I hear about Shani. Shani made me feel like I was part of the Feder family. Through her kindness, thoughtfulness and generosity when she would have me over, I knew I was always invited to family meals. She had me over for Thanksgiving meals, Yom Tov meals and many get-togethers. I remember one Thanksgiving I was late to the Feder family meal. After everyone ate soup Shani was expecting me and kept the soup on the burner. When I arrived she asked me if I would like some and I ate her scrumptious vegetable soup. When I would leave she would always say “You're invited any time,” or “Come any time.” and I know she meant it.
Shani is one of the warmest people I have ever known and will ever know. Through the detailed questions she would ask about my life, I saw she truly cared about me and what I was doing. She would always have great perspective on things. Shani would ask what I was up to, really thought about my answers and responded with chachma. I remember before the summer explaining to her that I would be teaching immigrants and she showed much interest in it. She then gave me advice similar to that of my professors. But she didn't only show interest in me. Hearing this same thought from many people who knew her, it is apparent that Shani cared about every person, how they were and what they were up to.
Shani’s family is a reflection of what kind of person she was. She loved them, was close to them and really cared about them, and they for her. They are devoted to learning Torah and are Baalei Chasadim, as she was. Her grandchildren loved “Savti” and really appreciated her warmth and care for them. Just a few weeks ago Hillel (her 2 year old grandson) and I were looking through family pictures and I was asking him who everyone is. I pointed to Shani and he said “Savti” and looked up at me with a smile. It was apparent that even baby Hillel loves her so much. I admire Shani tremendously. We should all use her example to better ourselves and improve the way we relate to others.
Shani is one of the warmest people I have ever known and will ever know. Through the detailed questions she would ask about my life, I saw she truly cared about me and what I was doing. She would always have great perspective on things. Shani would ask what I was up to, really thought about my answers and responded with chachma. I remember before the summer explaining to her that I would be teaching immigrants and she showed much interest in it. She then gave me advice similar to that of my professors. But she didn't only show interest in me. Hearing this same thought from many people who knew her, it is apparent that Shani cared about every person, how they were and what they were up to.
Shani’s family is a reflection of what kind of person she was. She loved them, was close to them and really cared about them, and they for her. They are devoted to learning Torah and are Baalei Chasadim, as she was. Her grandchildren loved “Savti” and really appreciated her warmth and care for them. Just a few weeks ago Hillel (her 2 year old grandson) and I were looking through family pictures and I was asking him who everyone is. I pointed to Shani and he said “Savti” and looked up at me with a smile. It was apparent that even baby Hillel loves her so much. I admire Shani tremendously. We should all use her example to better ourselves and improve the way we relate to others.
Sunday, September 15, 2013
From Nancy
July 2013
Dear Shani,
Our friendship was a very close and comfortable one. I think the reason was because we felt like family.
I always tried to stay in touch with you but staying in touch was at times difficult. There were those days or even weeks when I would leave messages with no return phone calls. I knew there were things going on and you did not feel well. However, as soon as you felt better, your call would come and of course we would catch up with each other. No problem.
I would say how are things? You would answer hectic. I knew the word hectic was an understatement.
In your case it could mean a life saving procedure, an operation or even a transplant. Shani - speaking to you, I had no clue about the seriousness of what you may have gone through. You would say to me or I would say let’s meet for lunch and off we would go. You would ask - Nancy where do you want to go? What time is good for you? It was never about you - Shani. You were always thinking about what’s good for me.
We would meet. You always looked beautiful. Your hat matched your scarf that matched your sweater that matched your skirt that matched your shoes, and of course that matched your bag. You even had a 14K gold medical alert bracelet! Only you! More importantly, you were as beautiful on the inside as you were on the outside.
The time we spent together was so special for me and I hope it also gave you a little respite from the medical issues you faced every day. We spoke about the kids, the grandkids you loved so much, shopping, recipes and if a Yom Tov was on the horizon, we spoke about who was coming and who was going. All the usual stuff. However, with you Shani, the usual stuff became very special stuff.
You would often say to me -Nancy- I can’t worry about tomorrow because if I do than I cannot appreciate today and today is going very well for me. What more can I ask for. You faced whatever came your way with strength, courage, dignity and tremendous Faith in Hashem. You were gentle and kind but strong when you had to be. You faced each problem, overcame it and was ready for the next challenge. You always said with Mendy in your corner, fighting for you, caring for you and loving you everything would be okay.
Shani - my dear close and comfortable friend-you have taught me so many life lessons. Lessons that will be with me forever . It has been a true privilege to have known you.
So Shani-my close and comfortable friend – I will miss you tremendously .
Nancy Irom
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